Resisting temptation and staying focussed on your journey
- It’s your journey - so don't worry about what others say about your choices in food or drinks
- Don't leave the house hungry, and unprepared.
- Remember that most people are so busy worrying about themselves they don't really notice your choices - if you are not making a big deal yourself
- Don't travel without supportive foods and fluids with you unless you know for sure you can get what you need where you are going.
- Map out your NO THANK YOU practice and be enrolled in it.
- Go where the love is. don’t hang around where there are judgments, comments or criticism.
- If it is time to digress from your usual targeted eating plan, don't blow it on food you don't absolutely LOVE
- When you do blow it - get over it. Don't wait until next Monday to start again.
- Map out healthy alternatives to the things that trip you up and know where to get them or how to make them yourself.
- Make a set of PERSONAL RULES: things that you are absolutely unbending on. (start with 2, then when mastered make more rules).
Here’s an example of a few of mine:
1.“I don't eat deep-fried food” not that I don't like it, I just don't love it enough to want to work it all off later.
2.“I drink 2 glasses of wine per week” now if I do one on a Monday, I have to remember that on Friday when I want more wine, I only have one left in the bank.
3.“I don't eat out on a weeknight unless it's a special occasion” eating out mid-week is always forgotten about by the weekend, and the extra calories in 2 bought meals will probably not leave me in the calorie deficit I need to keep me heading in the right direction.
- What are your new PERSONAL RULES?
You don't have to tell everyone, you just live by them when you are getting yourself through the week.
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